On the windowsill next to me, my tea casts a shadow on the glass. The good news? Ultimately, communication and honesty are the two most important ingredients to a successful unicorn experience; both with the couple, and with yourself. Apologies if you're the "a little more action" type, but while a casual threesome can take place as soon as everyone's consenting, a continuing relationship needs a lot of careful thought. Then great, get on with loving them. It wasn't, I learned, the threesomes that I most craved.
I'm the 'Unicorn' in a Three-Person Relationship
Let them know.
Unconventional Encounters: I Spent Six Months Dating A Couple
You're not out for a threesome fling — you're in this for the medium to long haul. Keep in mind that your intuition may send out warnings as well. Post Cancel. Let us always be a support to one another—a friend to listen and encourage, a refuge from the storm, and most importantly, a warrior in prayer.