Do you believe that most people are inherently decent, loyal, loving and are looking for you just as ardently as you are looking for them? Guilt implies you did something wrong. As hard as it may be, and while you certainly should not trust in a blindly haphazard fashion, you must have the ability to trust the people you introduce into your life, rather than judge them on any wrongdoings of those in your past. Don't get mixed up in guilty feelings like "it's mean" or "they didn't do anything wrong. But you're responsible for your own feelings. This New World.
Why We Find Ourselves With Guilt When We Enter New Relationships
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Dating Don’t: The Guilt Game
Similar to all walks of life, when it comes to love, be your own judge. However, there is a far more important question that not many people ask -- and it is a vital question; one that is far more important that that of "appropriateness" and a question that you absolutely must ask of yourself prior to dating post-loss or post-divorce:. Your stuff is yours.